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Have you ever 'packed', and what are your thoughts about this?

2010-01-30 07:31:57


packing could be quite sexy if the wearer could pull it off


2010-01-30 07:31:52


packing could be quite sexy if the wearer could pull it off


2009-12-06 17:56:47


my thoughts exactly, kc.


2009-12-06 17:04:57


1plus1isyouandI your comment sounded like spam I often get in my inbox...... lol


2009-12-06 15:21:14


I sometimes pack to go to school, hehe. I go to mime school and we all wear tight pants or just stockings or unitards, and the crotch is a point of reference for many of the moves we do. Sometimes I'm in the mood, and my school mates gossip behind my back but they've never dared to ask anything directly to my face.
Sometimes I pack to go dancing too, but then girls who know me think it's 'cute' and want to squeeze the package! I enjoy the atention.


2009-12-06 14:38:28


Yesstaight gal wanted a man last night so i gave her my 7 inch. great time!


2009-12-06 11:01:57


OMG I just started reading/working in Kate Bournstein's 'My Gender Workbook'. It's AMAZING. A total mindfuck about gender ...


2009-12-06 08:31:53


Anydrogyny is fascinating


2009-12-06 08:30:03


Tricking the eye is fun. I love wearing makeup and wigs, I can pull off the feminine look. Doing the reverse, wearing no makeup and dressing in men's clothing, has for the most part, most people questioning my gender. Orientation coinciding with gender is entirely separate. Questioning, although sometimes offensive, is not labeling or stereotyping. I dislike direct assumptions.


2009-12-06 01:37:14


well... I gotta say... I've been 'real lesbian packing' every day for almost a decade.... in fact... I have multiple dils that I carry with me regularly, and I wouldn't trade them for any hunk of lifeless silicone ever..... bless my eight fingers, two thumbs, and one tongue (oh and one squishy nose *hehe*) ;)


2009-12-05 14:07:52


me too :)


2009-12-05 12:34:22


i think just about any form of gender bending is pretty sexy :P


2009-12-05 10:26:21


mmmm....seeing someone packing sure works for me...


2009-12-05 00:08:53


hey disco, i don't pack, nor know much about it, but as far as i know when you 'pack', you're putting on a special dildo called a packer http://www.selfservetoys.com/store/dildos-soft-pack-dildos-c-5_130.html?zenid=6kr1vu9usoosr58dgokrv80n82 but to have sex obviously you'd use a sturdier more erect dildo. if that's what you meant..


2009-12-04 16:08:20



Hhmm.. seeing the 'visible signs' lol, or, knowing someone you may be getting 'closer' to IS certainly opens up several possibilities (grin)
Harnesses


beach_fille User is offline
2009-12-04 15:55:55


Pack it in...pack it out!!


2009-12-04 07:49:44


I love the look of strap-on harnesses (not the vegan rock-climbing devices). I think when worn solo, they can be quite sexy :) Donating one this weekend to support the queer community.


2009-12-03 20:37:49


I have read several posts and I am left puzzled. I have always thought that packing meant wearing a dildo and harness underneath your clothes, almost like an accessory. Unless I am mistaken, using a dildo in the bedroom is not packing. Putting one on as you are getting dressed before stepping out to go grocery shopping is. To the members that pack regularly and identify themselves as a woman/lesbian, I have a question for you. I would like to know what is your main motivation for packing i.e. being set to have sex, exhilirating feeling etc. Since the Sound off question has not yet been changed, why not conduct an unscientific survey?


2009-12-03 10:37:11


oh, come on....don't be such a strawberry


strawberry User is offline
2009-12-02 18:59:37


God,when is this provider going to post something new?


2009-12-02 18:09:31


welp, I didn't know what 'packing' was until I read this very, VERY strange thread. I quickly formed the opinion that packing is 'gay'.


2009-12-01 23:47:05


i pack all the time...i started long before coming out trans and love it! a straight friend loved it and has called me bro ever since. for me it was great, it felt right since the first time i put it on.

because of it, i got the stink eye from straight chicks in girls bathrooms...then i would wash my hands :P i know its been appreciated from lesbians and straight women...ooooh and gay men love it too :D

my favorite reaction, dude! holy shit! big enough? by a friend leaning down to give me a hug goodbye at a party, those are nice pants to wear packing!


2009-12-01 18:31:20


I find that very sexy on a feminine woman who is confident and on fire with her sexuality!


2009-12-01 13:43:31


just the other night.... and man are my abs feeling it today... best workout on the planet!


2009-12-01 04:32:36


Done it, used to a lot. Love it.


2009-12-01 00:02:40


I don't see how something so beautiful as a girl strapping one on could be so controversial. Lets hear some funny stories about packin to lighten the mood :)


2009-11-30 23:01:01


yes. it is my chosen method of communication on a dating site.


strawberry User is offline
2009-11-30 22:42:15


Wow-you argue about everything-even the topic for the topic change. Hilarious!


2009-11-30 22:12:31


a non-controversial thread on a site called superdyke. c'est impossible!


strawberry User is offline
2009-11-30 21:51:46


Topic change! Something less controversial...


2009-11-30 18:09:07


hahaha this convo just took a weeeiiird turn haha


DarkOne User is offline
2009-11-30 17:44:57


Wouldn't call it a waste, you can be almost certain he's still using it to diddle himself.


2009-11-30 13:38:56


LMAO whitefox_ca! That is awesome, though I'm sorry to hear of a dildo being wasted on someone so unappreciative


2009-11-29 22:45:35


*keeps mouth shut*


2009-11-29 21:30:21


My girlfriend and I were walking around in the West End one day when some guy in a basement apartment yelled out 'FUCKING DYKES'. We yelled something back and of course, kept walking but it still made me angry. So we went back to the hotel where we were staying and got my strap-on and dildo. We then went back to the guy's house and threw the strap-on and dildo in through his basement window, then ran away laughing our heads (our dickheads?) off. I have to say that packing episode was the best ever. And obviously the lesson is: if you're going to be a dick, don't do it from a basement window, otherwise you're more than likely to get a flying dick right back at you.


2009-11-29 21:11:17


I tried packing a dildo in a strap-on harness once. Packers looked a bit lifeless and unattractive. Figured under baggy jeans it would be slick and sexy. That didn't go over so well. Looked like I had a giant boner LOL. Wearing it was awkward and uncomfortable. Would never do it again.


2009-11-29 20:03:13


The point here is that a dildo is not a dick or need not be. One can still be lesbian and pack or like someone who packs. It's just one of many options and it does not mean someone is secretly into men (not that there's anything wrong with being into men).


Winddancerr User is offline
2009-11-29 15:53:30


LOL it is all good... you and your PACKage


2009-11-29 15:12:27


uh oh.


Winddancerr User is offline
2009-11-29 12:45:06


sate, if you were so feminist you wouldnt attack me for an opinion nor inexperience. Just as you arent ashamed of your abundance of im neither ashamed of my newness...


2009-11-29 12:36:48


in my mostly gratuitous, cavernous, vast, dastardly, sloppy, shame-mortared vault of experience i've had with women (I don't mean you, you are special and different), i have found that most of 'em, regardless of their sexual orientation, really like to get f***ed and/or f*** using a variety of objects, including (but not limited to), silicone representations of penises. I'm guessing it's because it feels really good and looks good, too. Penetration is generally socially constructed to be heterosexual behaviour (thereby indicating the presence of heterosexual proclivities in the participants). drop the 'social construction' (remember, most stuff that is socially constructed is done for the protection of dominant norms and those who are rewarded by them, and we certainly don't want to do that!) and get on with the feel-good f***ery, Winddancer, and you too can exchange your naivety/ignorance/inexperience for your own gratuitous, cavernous, vast, dastardly, sloppy, shame-mortared vault of experience with women (all of them different and special).

sate.


Winddancerr User is offline
2009-11-29 05:46:15


Sure there are people who are trans, but what i said is if women identify as LESBIANS why would they pack?? twas the ??... trans folks or genderqueer i get it, but lesbians packin? me no get.
shrug. pardon my naivite and ignorance then.... chock it up to inexperience! :: red cheeks ::


2009-11-29 02:18:38


~ yes~ and I felt very empowered n not ashamed to share it either, nothing like giving your lover the maximum pleasure they deserve and when its grounding ( or grinding whatever lol )I dont think I had a better feeling of pure ~ cock ~ envy ....sorry ppl I had to laff @ my own forwardness........nothing to be shy of ladies n gents.


2009-11-29 00:29:20


Hey Winddancer, I think there are lots of people on superdyke who don't identify as lesbians or as women - lots of awesome genderqueers, trans people, and others who maybe just enjoy packing, even if they identify as women. What a great, diverse community!


Winddancerr User is offline
2009-11-28 22:00:42


ok ... if lesbians are women that like other women, why would someone pack to attract another woman anyways unless you are going for someone hetero??? scratchin my head... shrug. no comprendez.


2009-11-28 18:39:14


what's with all this packing at the ferry terminal..I'm telling my manager!! I'm telling the packing cops!


2009-11-28 15:49:16


I have, but I don't often, as I don't have a real packer. Also, nothing will compensate for my thighs, so it doesn't help my presentation very much to have a not-very-noticeable bulge in my pants.


2009-11-28 15:30:23


Not myself, but my girlfriend picked me up from the ferry one day and asked me to wear a skirt. Thought there was something up....and oh girl was there!


acid_burn User is offline
2009-11-28 15:23:30




http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/lesbiansex/ht/HowtoPacking.htm


2009-11-28 15:17:01


Awww....thanx amazonkc:)


2009-11-28 10:30:32


CAN WE CHANGE the topic ..yet ?? anyone ?


2009-11-27 23:29:34


you all suck haha why doesnt anyone talk to the young one on here? i have packed damnit ha haha


2009-11-27 20:09:34


haha you rock Taper gurl!


2009-11-27 15:44:25


Off and on for many years now..


ckone User is offline
2009-11-27 12:15:48


I'm a natural ;)


2009-11-26 21:59:53


no


2009-11-26 15:49:33


Ha ha...totally have...was a nice surprise for my girlfriend when i picked her up from the ferry...random and spontaneous....very exciting:)


strawberry User is offline
2009-11-26 15:07:41


I have not known anyone who has worn a dildo in their pants.


2009-11-26 13:35:27


Fred doesn't like it outside, it's too cold for him..plus he's too big to fit inside my pants..he's an indoor kinda guy.


newfemme User is offline
2009-11-26 12:27:35


Okay so what's a mango?


2009-11-26 11:31:50


Great question! Never packed myself... but I love it when She does! :)

lol @ Interior packing. Mmmm... fun!



2009-11-26 09:46:36


sometimes, not as much anymore. i dig it, i like it when femme girls pack too! now i'm kind of busy experimenting with other packing styles, um, like interior packing? seeing how much i can fit in there comfortably and still carry on a hot date...


2009-11-26 00:09:56


No haha I think that would be funny on me but I think it's hot when girls wear them out.


2009-11-25 23:47:52


Have U ?


2009-11-25 23:47:41


NO...i cant say honestly that i have.. would be interesting thats for sure.


2009-11-25 23:21:56


C'mon Amberstar!!! hahah I like this convo. Have you ever packed? hahahah


2009-11-25 19:47:54


Yes especially when I date or am involved with a straight woman all the time . On flights I use one that will not set the metal detector off and we do it in the aircraft and in the bathroom at the airport anyone like to try this with me? Lover only!


2009-11-25 19:46:37


Yes need a woman to show me how to pack better. Yes


2009-11-25 19:14:26


well..ya are pretty super.. :) Can we please change the topic now ?? ANYONE ????


2009-11-25 08:03:30


I guess packing only counts when you go out in public? So I guess 'packing' whilst in bed (or on the living room floor or wherever) with your horny girlfriend doesn't count?


2009-11-25 00:31:47


'I pack almost daily. I have been transitioning for a number of years myself and have a 'mango' packer the helps when going to the little boys room(standing is a wonderful thing).'

y'know i was just about to open my fridge to take a closer look at my mangos (i was also like 'wow... now i know why they're so expensive) when i realized you meant man-GO.

i would pack a man-GO solely to experience the convenience of peeing standing up. and like i could call it my pee-pee and for once it would be technically correct.

there's more... but that's private.

sate.


2009-11-24 23:06:31


I'm secretly loving this convo :) Please talk more about packin ;)haha


DarkOne User is offline
2009-11-24 22:01:45


Wear a big swaety lump of rubber in my shorts? Nah. I've got girl parts and don't care who knows.


2009-11-24 18:56:54


I pack almost daily. I have been transitioning for a number of years myself and have a 'mango' packer the helps when going to the little boys room(standing is a wonderful thing).


clean_sober_transguy User is offline
2009-11-24 18:01:29


Absolutely! I've been transitioning (FTM) for a number of years now. I haven't packed in a while but always enjoyed it when I did, I'm thinking of taking it back up again ;) Doing it occassionally helps me feel more complete sexually, but it isn't something I need to do daily in order to feel complete all around in my body.


2009-11-24 16:50:15


ha ha ha, love it! can't wait to see the response to this one...


acid_burn User is offline
2009-11-24 15:34:40


oh yeah i always pack, and i think it's a GREAT idea. I especially enjoy packing for trips to the kits beach, and i feel it helps me attract the ladies down there.


2009-11-24 15:31:03


LMAO (sate). i haven't packed cause i'd feel self conscious that i wouldn't pass ... but i would defs try it if i was at a queer event or in drag!


2009-11-24 13:52:32


only when i log on to superdyke. i always feel pressure to live up to the 'super' requirement.




 
     



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