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a certain king will never be asked to judge again


Hmm.. I wonder if a person of colour will one day have the privilege of sitting on the judge's panel.

Perhaps a person of colour will have a chance at winning this year? Or winning the rare but coveted chance of being runner-up?

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well all of you sure no how to keep people away. Folk are scared to comment. scared that every little word will come under attack.

My predictions
idke will be very successful
a certain king will never be asked to judge again
this thread will fade away due to too much anger


my final statement is that it can't be right to paint all white people with one brush. we are not all uninformed, nor racist, nor uneducated, nor all insensitive to race. oh I cant help myself now...not all whites are priviledged. Generalizations are not good...and quite a few of you are generalizing too much... most statements are angry and I know folk can state we have the right to be angry ---I agree--but you are tripping over it and your lectures, I feel, are condensending.
so with that, this white person is going silent too.

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when a female identified person gets on a stage wearing pants it is automatically a political statement. aware of it or not.


This reminds me of something that happened a couple years ago:
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Amina Wadud is an Associate Professor of Islamic Studies at Virginia Commonwealth University (VCU) in Richmond, Virginia. She was the cause of controversy in March of 2005 when she led a Friday prayer for a group of Muslims in New York City, a job usually reserved for men. Wadud was the subject of much debate and Muslim juristic discourse after leading a Friday prayer congregation of over 100 men and women in the Episcopal cathedral of St. John the Divine in New York on March 18, 2005, breaking with the tradition of having only male imams. Three mosques had refused to host the service, while an art gallery was persuaded through a bomb threat to refuse the service as well. (The event was not the first time in the history of Islam that a woman had led the Friday prayer. See Women as imams for a discussion of the issue.)

In August 1994, Wadud delivered a Friday khutbah (sermon) on "Islam as Engaged Surrender" at the Claremont Main Road Mosque in Cape Town, South Africa. At the time, this too was largely unheard of in the Muslim world. As a result, there were attempts in Virginia by some Muslims to have her removed from her position at Virginia Commonwealth University.


Well now wait a minute, all she was doing was praying! I mean, I'm sure she's done it a million times before in her lifetime, reciting the exact same words and carrying out the correct motions as outlined in the Quran. But then why was this particular prayer so controversial? Why was it seen as such a bold political statement? Was anything she did in regards to her prayer out of the ordinary?

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me: From what i recall the audience voted on the best act of that night


boy_wonder, sorry i should ahve been more clear... the QUEENS performed and were SOMETIMES voted on by the audience. for whatever prize the club/promoter event had.

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boy_wonder: when a female identified person gets on a stage wearing pants it is automatically a political statement. aware of it or not.


hmm and what's it mean when a 'female bodied person' REFUSES to wear anything but pants and shorts EVERYWHERE and EVERYDAY of their life?
cause i love to wear pants... not labels.

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Sure, I'm the same way, but there is a lot more that should go into a song choice other than if you "feel it" or not. One wouldn't want to perform something and later find out that someone was totally offended by it because the performer didn't put enough thought into it in the first place.

I think what boy_wonder is saying, is that back when he did drag, it was much more of an outright political statement, and that now a lof of kings do not appreciate that, and don't realize that it is still subversive to go up on stage in drag and perform, and there is a lot of responsibility that comes with that.



Thanks Sammy I get your point. I just don't feel the need to have political statement in my acts at the moment.


does any one out there realize that it is still male priviledge to wear pants? to "wear the pants in the family."

last week there was an article in the employment paper. published by "business in vancouver". in that article it basically told women that if they wanted to succeed, to get ahead, be promoted... they should take their cue from the women in their office that already had been. if they wore skirts then you should also wear skirts and NOT pants in order to be successful.

when a female identified person gets on a stage wearing pants it is automatically a political statement. aware of it or not.

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if you're picking the songs because YOU like them first and foremost...you are going on stage to please yourself.

once upon a time drag kings picked songs because they actually cared about what their audience might want to see. there are a few drag kings that do that. and they are brilliant. however they seem to be out- numbered at the moment.


You are not getting the point!. You can not get up and perform a song that you can't feel yourself. Doesn't mean I am doing the show for myself, I get up and do what I am asked to do, but if I don't feel I can give the best for a song I don't do it.


are you trying to say you're a mindless drag king robot that has no ability to stop and think about what you are doing before you do it? no ability to think about what it looks like outside of your box? no ability to think about how it might feel if it mattered to you?

where's my remote control...

original by aikio: "The performers supported eachother's shows. From what i recall the audience voted on the best act of that night... not on who was the most popular 'drag artist' in the community."

you're right about us supporting each other's shows and encouraging one another to start up new shows. but we never voted on who was the best act of the night.

it was never about competing with each other for us. to see who was most popular. we all had our fans and our detractors. not one of us was any more special than the other. that's part of the reason why it worked.

i received complaints back then from people that said they were offended...but i knew that their offense was taken from actually being challenged to think. from being called on their shit. so i let it roll off my back. and i still do. because at least i know that it's true purpose is being met. no matter how that unfolds.

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Sure, I'm the same way, but there is a lot more that should go into a song choice other than if you "feel it" or not. One wouldn't want to perform something and later find out that someone was totally offended by it because the performer didn't put enough thought into it in the first place.

I think what boy_wonder is saying, is that back when he did drag, it was much more of an outright political statement, and that now a lof of kings do not appreciate that, and don't realize that it is still subversive to go up on stage in drag and perform, and there is a lot of responsibility that comes with that.



Thanks Sammy I get your point. I just don't feel the need to have political statement in my acts at the moment.

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if you're picking the songs because YOU like them first and foremost...you are going on stage to please yourself.

once upon a time drag kings picked songs because they actually cared about what their audience might want to see. there are a few drag kings that do that. and they are brilliant. however they seem to be out- numbered at the moment.


You are not getting the point!. You can not get up and perform a song that you can't feel yourself. Doesn't mean I am doing the show for myself, I get up and do what I am asked to do, but if I don't feel I can give the best for a song I don't do it.


Sure, I'm the same way, but there is a lot more that should go into a song choice other than if you "feel it" or not. One wouldn't want to perform something and later find out that someone was totally offended by it because the performer didn't put enough thought into it in the first place.

I think what boy_wonder is saying, is that back when he did drag, it was much more of an outright political statement, and that now a lof of kings do not appreciate that, and don't realize that it is still subversive to go up on stage in drag and perform, and there is a lot of responsibility that comes with that.

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in my attempt to figure out what belongs in here and what goes in a thread on drag kings... i decided that...
drag kings ARE part of our community... just as racism exist within the queer community.

so fuck it. i've posted in both threads.


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boy_wonder: i am not going to sit down and stop bitching. i have more right to bitch than any of you. i know. with god as my witness, i was there and not one single one of you ever were.


uhm i hope you don't group me in there with the 'yous'... i performed, a couple times... 3 maybe 4??? with an all male female impersonator aka 'drag' troupe back in the late 80's... think Jon and Unicorn Productions... @ the dufferin/ john barley's/ msT's/numbers .. out of town once too.. from what i recall.

whenever they needed a female 'read dyke' dressed like a guy. i even snuck into the Gandy Dancer and Numbers on 'men's night' totally passing btw.

i don't remember any controversy over 'racist numbers' back then.
the Queens did many popular numbers. We had queens of ALL races doing songs from all races. eg. Filipino queens doing Tina Turner songs.
Native queens did 'white' songs, R&B, whatever the hell they felt like, what was popular in the club and some revamped old vaudeville songs. the odd Rusty Warren skit too.

Everyone came out, supported the performers and had FUN.

i had a roomie in the 90's who was taken under the wing of the 'dufferin queens' and she performed in 'boy drag'. this was a str8 white girl doing Ricky Martin numbers.

i was never called a 'drag king'... it was just called drag. or 'boy drag' as the trannies called dressing in 'men's clothes'.

i remember boy_wonder's AWESOME shows at the Lotus... Bec and Crema too... also an amazing Armani suited performer.. i think went by the name of Jr (pronounced junior) i might be wrong on the stage name so correct me...

any-farkin-how... boy_wonder's shows rocked! the people on stage were great. You could tell how much rehearsal and heart went into the acts.

The audience loved them. They asked for shows! People drove up from Seattle to see them too. That's why Trigger booked them!

The performers supported eachother's shows. From what i recall the audience voted on the best act of that night... not on who was the most popular 'drag artist' in the community.

Back then, it was ENTERTAINMENT.
it wasn't about race related politics ... it was about gender bending and of course gay rights etc...

and like everything... hopefully... things evolve.

So if drag is evolving with new terms and a new political awareness... then so be it.

Bravo or Brava as the case may be...


edit* no one was using the terms FTM, 'transmen' or 'bio-boy'... trannies was a term for pre or post-op MTF's only.

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if you're picking the songs because YOU like them first and foremost...you are going on stage to please yourself.

once upon a time drag kings picked songs because they actually cared about what their audience might want to see. there are a few drag kings that do that. and they are brilliant. however they seem to be out- numbered at the moment.


You are not getting the point!. You can not get up and perform a song that you can't feel yourself. Doesn't mean I am doing the show for myself, I get up and do what I am asked to do, but if I don't feel I can give the best for a song I don't do it.

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I'm not too sure what drag kings have been told in this city about IDKE, but this is ALL that is talked about, ALL the time! So if you don't like it, or don't care to know, or think it's trivial, i'd advise you to stay away from it when it comes here, because this is exactly what it's like.

And why is that? Because racism, especially in terms of appropriation, is a HUGE topic and problem in drag.

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As a Drag King - we try to pick songs
1 - Foremost because we like the song
2 - Because it is popular (in the charts)
3 - Because the crowd likes the song

We do not go on stage to please ourselves - we get on stage to give a show.

For me it is hard because most of the charts right now is R&B - ie Black artist! and I don't really get into R&B/rap etc,

Also I like being different - remember that?

I think this tread is going down and fast.

Stop bitching at each other over stupid things and move on.

My GOD!


for the record...i am so sick and tired of being condescended to by wet behind the ears drag kings that have been riding on this band wagon for a year or two. maybe three, maybe four. 5 or 6? or people that have never even been one.

tired of being told what it means to be a drag king, what the definition of it is. it's one thing to jump on a band wagon that's been in progress and rolling for over ten years. it's another thing to build that fuckin' wagon. to come up with the idea and find a way to create it. to bring it to reality.

there was no drag king community when i started. and i had no idea that there was a handful of folks in america coming up with the same idea. at the same time...that's called synchronicity. we all found each other.

no one in vancouver had ever called themselves a drag king before. i am so sick of our his/herstory being disrespected. denied, erased and rewritten. i'm tired of watching people stake their claim to fame some where that they just weren't. and there is no one on the i.d.k.e board that called themselves a drag king when that community was a fledgling. and they gave little to no support to that community.

i know. i was there.

i put my blood, sweat and tears into creating something that was about community first and foremost. that was about accessibility. that was about being a safe place for all genders and colours. that was about fighting oppression. and it was for the dyke community first and foremost although every one was always welcome.

i wish some one would have complained about my covert racism back then. about ours...because i would have learned sooner. and i could truly say that we didn't oppress any one.

thankfully other people thought the idea of that wagon was worth putting some effort into. whether as a drag king or a supporter. together we built that wagon. and as a community we gave it a push and got it rolling.

and you've all jumped on it because why? and do you all see what's happening to that band wagon? i am ashamed and embarassed by what this community is becoming.

i am not going to sit down and stop bitching. i have more right to bitch than any of you. i know. with god as my witness, i was there and not one single one of you ever were.

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Stop bitching at each other over stupid things and move on.



i don't think i've ever heard the topic of racism described as a 'stupid thing' before.



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if anyone wants to discuss how we are all genetically related ... i started a new thread.

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I see this is becoming a heated discussion! I think we have a wide variety of opinions here and we all should tread lightly around a sensitive topic. Sometimes we say things are perceived as disrespectful and indeed we lose sight of the bigger picture.

From a moderator stand point, I'd rather not see this thread degenerate into a flame war because I really don't want to have to delete or close anything here. With such an active thread we have a great opportunity to learn from each other.

My suggestion is perhaps contacting individual users via private messages to discuss things that have been posted that maybe you felt offended by to avoid making public personal attacks. Otherwise contact a moderator.

A reminder of the forum rules for ya'll:

* If you have problems with a thread, post, or another user, please contact a moderator (either myself or Michelle) to let us know instead of making attacks on the forums. On the flip side of this please don't be messaging us every half hour with another complaint - if a particular topic or thread is bothering you then keep in mind that you can choose not to read it.

* IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT'S POSTED IN THE FORUMS OR IN A PARTICULAR THREAD - DON'T READ IT! No one is forcing you to click on that link.

* We take the "Play Nice/Be Polite" rule very seriously! Any member who is intentionally unpleasant or disruptive may be suspended and/or banned without warning.


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Originally posted by melbird
As a Drag King - we try to pick songs
1 - Foremost because we like the song
2 - Because it is popular (in the charts)
3 - Because the crowd likes the song

We do not go on stage to please ourselves - we get on stage to give a show.


if you're picking the songs because YOU like them first and foremost...you are going on stage to please yourself.

once upon a time drag kings picked songs because they actually cared about what their audience might want to see. there are a few drag kings that do that. and they are brilliant. however they seem to be out- numbered at the moment.

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First off.. Indian is not Native.The whole PC crap remember? East Indian is bad.. asian is bad.. so what the fuck do you call someone from there? Unless you know the specific country is pretty fuckin hard to pick one.

Anyway I was pointing how retarded this is all getting. As soon as someone gets wind in their sails they are no longer willing to take one small step at a time. They want to take EVERYTHING down at once. And in doing that they are alienating the people that might have otherwise listened. I know I'm done. All I see here is racism at its finest clothed in politically correct wording.


hellboy...you and i go way back. you are some one i've called a best friend. and i was there to get your back if the need arose. i feel like that is happening right now.

deep down you are one of the most kind-hearted and good-natured people i've ever met. i've seen you do some amazing acts of kindness which you hide under your gruff and grumpy exterior.

we've had many conversations about racism. and you are a smart guy too. really fuckin' smart. and i know that you get it. when you say things like that i feel sad. because i wonder why you keep knocking yourself and people like you. people like me. we've both had similar experiences growing up being taught to hate ourselves. i just wish you'd give that part of yourself more credit. because you deserve it.

if we were walkin' down a street together and the wrong guy called you "indian" you know i'd have your back when you let 'em have it. and you and i both know you'd let him have it.

give a guy a break for caring.

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Originally posted by melbird
As a Drag King - we try to pick songs
1 - Foremost because we like the song
2 - Because it is popular (in the charts)
3 - Because the crowd likes the song

We do not go on stage to please ourselves - we get on stage to give a show.

For me it is hard because most of the charts right now is R&B - ie Black artist! and I don't really get into R&B/rap etc,

Also I like being different - remember that?

I think this tread is going down and fast.

Stop bitching at each other over stupid things and move on.

My GOD!



The whole point is to critically examine our behaviour and how it perpetuates racism. If you have read this entire thread and can say that you remain unconcerned about racism in the queer community, then by all means, blindly continue to perform your routines for fun and popularity, because well... there are bigger things to 'bitch' about... like well, gee... ummm... maybe, NOTHING.

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First off.. Indian is not Native.The whole PC crap remember? East Indian is bad.. asian is bad.. so what the fuck do you call someone from there? Unless you know the specific country is pretty fuckin hard to pick one.

Anyway I was pointing how retarded this is all getting. As soon as someone gets wind in their sails they are no longer willing to take one small step at a time. They want to take EVERYTHING down at once. And in doing that they are alienating the people that might have otherwise listened. I know I'm done. All I see here is racism at its finest clothed in politically correct wording.


Y'know, I could've kept my mouth shut (or fingers still) after seeing that. I've done it before. I grew up in Calgary, Alberta during the gulf war, and my last name is Hussain. I either got called a "Paki" everyday, twice a day at school, or was taunted about my family name. There were only so many things I could scream back before I just got used to it, I mean, it happened to me from age 7 to 9-years-old.

I am SO sorry that you have a hard time picking a name for me, SO sorry that you can't keep up with non-offensive terms to call me, SO sorry that whoever you asked about what my ethnicity is gave you the wrong information, please, PLEASE don't leave this conversation. I NEED you to listen. I WANT you to continue on in this very important subject.

Wait a minute, I don't care what YOU do, you can be as destructive and ignorant as YOU want to. But don't tell ME when or when I should not sit there and take it.

Sammy - Pakistani

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