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LadyKona
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Oh!

Sammy!

Arent' you a brave one. I'll have to shake your hand the next time I see you.

Does it exist? Hell ya!

I had an incident occur to me recently thaqt made me wander around muttering for several days "I fucking hate white people." And I went to the WET (www.dangergirl.ca) event and I looked around at all the people there that I know and who I love and who claim the same of me. And I had this moment of clarity where I realized that few to none of these women would stick up for me in a moment of need around racism.

In fact, I know that few to none of them could identify the subtle opression that I walk through everyday. Unless it was completely OVERT, I bet they would be unable to name it or speak to it, or to witness it in a way that was helpful or supportive.

As I said to a friend of mine who claimed "I know about oppression! I'm Jewish!" (I almost punched her even though I've known her for over 20 years)... I said "You can take a day off. For me, getting out of bed and walking around in public is a political act." And the same goes for being queer. For *most* queers I know, there is the ability to blend, or hide or adopt a costume that will render one invisible.

I'm headingoff to the Kinky Christmas event (www.conferenceofkink.com) so I don't have time to continue my train of thought. But I hope that folks of all racial pursuasions step up and answer your question.

with awe,

~Kona

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Do I think racism exists in the queer community? Certainly. Just because we're a marginalized group doesn't mean we don't marginalize others (I know that previous statement is VASTLY generalizing here....).

Have I experienced it? no... I'm a pansy white girl. Which makes it much MUCH less likely for me to be on the reveiving end of racism (but I do think it's possible... just less likely).

Do I think that makes me special or different in any way? no. I gave up on trying to judge others or put myself in some sort of heirarchical comparison with others a LONG time ago.

My thoughts/feelings on it? As it's not something I've ever been on the receiving end of, it's not as personal to me. I haven't had the relevance of it slap me in the face. Do I think that means it isn't a problem? Not at all. I've had friends who have experienced discrimmination for all sorts of reasons- and I've learned that discrimmination for ANY reason sucks, ESPECIALLY if it's a reason out of your personal control such as race, age, gender... you know- all those good things outlined in the Charter of Rights and Freedoms.

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Here's a topic that's been very relevent in my life lately: Racism in the Queer Community

Your thoughts, feelings, and emotions surrounding it? Have you encountered it? Do you think it exists in this context? Examples of oppression based on race within the community?

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