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I realize it has been a while since this thread has been active, but I just wanted to say as someone else in conservative (and fairly homophobic, compared to many other places in BC) Kelowna, that while it all depends on your circumstances, I think you have to be true to yourself, as it creates a healthier environment for everyone (mental health, confidence, etc).
Discussing one's "lesbianism" with another parent may not have to do with just realizing you are a lesbian, but rather that you have always raised your children as a lesbian/queer parent.
While hard to find, I know that there are queer/lesbian parents in Kelowna who are not only "out" to their kids, but "out" to their daycares and schools too. By talking with the organizations that your kids are involved with means that 1) yes, they can be homophobic upfront, but then 2) you aren't in for huge surprises later, and conversely, should you experience any homophobia from other parents or kids later, the staff will be better able to support you.
Good luck!
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06-13-2010 09:07 |
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I think our children know us better than we know ourselves and if we aren't being authentic, they'll know...
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02-07-2009 11:26 |
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Rhapsody
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I know exactly how you feel. I've heard all those comments/questions from my family. The most important thing that I have learned is that if I am happy, so are my children, and if I'm miserable I won't be the best parent I can be. Most ppl who care will not argue this. And those who do...give them time and space to understand.
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02-01-2009 13:42 |
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Hippie
babydyke
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Location: Kelowna
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How could you do that to your children........they're going to get made up of in school......shouldn't you just wait until they are older and left the nest before you explore this side of you.......it's that going to mess them up.......
I have a very nonsupporting family. homophobic almost.
I haven't come out to them but pretty much know what they are going to say.
I need and want these people in mine and my children life.
How can I best approach this topic when the time comes.
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